i don't get the numbering at the end.. it's not the same list right.. that's not me right? it's not the same list..

i don't even have to tell you who wrote this..

I can still wear my North Face in Montana

I laughed out loud the other day when I remembered all the times my friends have made fun of me for dating men they deemed “unattractive.” Having had two relatively attractive boyfriends in the past, I always felt like I was having to defend my rights to being in that relationship. I’ve known how women will stop at NOTHING to make your life miserable and quite frankly my frustrations had manifested into a level of insecurity that I could not emotionally control.

Sometimes it’s not worth it. There are not enough attractive men versus attractive women in Seattle (Asians). For all the men that I ever found attractive, I knew of at least 3-4 girls who thought the same and had already “dated” and/or had physical relations w/ them. I don’t like the thought of being the 5th or 6th girl out of my circle of friends to be dating the same guy. It really cheapens the experience. In addition, these same guys also have large egos as this point and I wouldn’t be attracted to them anyways.

Another thing that I think also makes it hard for an Asian girl in Seattle is that there is not a large disparity in our looks meaning to say that we are all comparatively the same level of “good looking.” Of course there are ranges but we all generally dress nice and know how to take care of ourselves. The majority of us went to the UW and we all own a black North Face Denali jacket… and that is why we live in Seattle. We are a pretty “standard” city.

In conclusion, if you want an 1) attractive man who has 2) not dated or slept with half your female friends and 3) you want to feel secure in your relationship than you should move to Montana… where there are few Asians and less competition.